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Once I learned how to "let go correctly" I became a millionaire

_jFDGSaulEI — Published on YouTube channel Aaron Doughty on September 9, 2024, 5:30 PM

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Here is a brief summary of the key points in the transcript: - The speaker discusses how letting go of limiting beliefs about money and scarcity is key to becoming abundant. He shares how he went from working a 9-5 job he didn't like to becoming a millionaire by making YouTube videos. - Money is neutral energy that we give meaning to. Neither putting it on a pedestal nor judging it helps attract abundance. Think of money as a person - idolizing or belittling it will make it want to leave. - Focus on raising your vibration, adding value, and following your excitement rather than chasing money. Money will flow as a side effect of living your purpose and providing value. - Become aware of your subconscious "set point" for self-worth and abundance. Take actions to redefine your self-image. Go into the unknown to transform limiting beliefs. - Having mentors and being around abundant energy can help shift your mindset. The speaker offers a 21-day abundance challenge to help reprogram the mind. - A key meditation for abundance is shared. Doing it for 21 days can change your financial reality by aligning you energetically. The main points are to shift to an abundant mindset by letting go of scarcity, find your purpose, take action to redefine your self-image, and use tools like meditation to align your energy.

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If you want to become the most abundant version of yourself, it’s more about letting go than letting in. In this video, I will show you how I went from working 9-to-5 jobs selling women's shoes to becoming a millionaire in just a few short years. Join the Magnetic Abundance Challenge here! https://aarondoughty.com/mac

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If you want to become the most abundant version of you, it is more about letting go than it is about letting in. It is about letting go of the lack mentality. It may be letting go of scarcity, of believing that money is bad, on believing that a nine to five job is what feels normalized and safe. And in this video, I want to show you how I went from working a nine to five job, selling women's shoes in this mentality of a nine to five job going mentality. Seeing myself thinking, feeling, acting equal to a nine to five job. I did not like to then me becoming a millionaire within just a few short years. And what I want to do is show you the energetic shifts that I had to make in order for me to be in that energy and to create inside out transformation. The things I share in this video are much more about the energy of money. There's not going to be just one little habit you do. You get up at 06:00 every morning and then you focus on this. It's more of an energy. And if you adopt some of the principles I'm going to share with you, you will look back in six months from now and see that you live in a completely new reality, embodying a completely new energy and that you feel more in your power and that you are more abundant than you have ever been. Now, first off, let me share with you that a lot of times, one of the things that I see hold so many people back from actually being abundant is that their viewpoint is that it is not spiritual to be abundant. And back in 2012, when I went through my awakening, I had all these beliefs. I was like, the money's not backed by gold. There's these elite people controlling things. And I thought that, literally, to have money was evil. I thought that also to be the kind of person that has money meant I wasn't a spiritual person. And one of the things that I think holds us back is that focusing on money is that money is a side effect. Understand this, ultimately, money is as neutral as a marker. Okay? But even watching this right now, there's a little thought experiment for you to do, because you're going to feel different emotions in your body based on what I show you. Okay, we'll all agree this marker, it's pretty neutral, right? We don't really give it positive meaning, negative meaning. It's a neutral thing. Now, if I were to say, this marker is a very special marker, anything you write with this marker, you're going to be able to manifest in your life. And my grandma gave me this marker, and then I created my dream life using this marker. And you're like, oh, my God. Much meaning now, if you believe in it, right? If you believe what I said, then I could get this crystal. This crystal right here. This crystal is a citrine mixed with something else. I forget. It looks like black tourmaline. I think it's ametrine. I think it's amethyst and citrine mixed. Maybe it's not. I don't know. Actually. It's some yellow. I bought this a long time ago. It's a good crystal, though. Good crystal. I'm telling you that you should believe it. It's a high vibrational crystal. It's so spiritual. It's the abundance frequency. Having this crystal will help you manifest whatever you want just because of the energetic structure of it. Well, if you believe that, that may be something that. Oh, it's so spiritual. I'm going to meditate with it. It's going to activate my third eye. Right? You maybe agree with that. Maybe you don't. Maybe that triggers you because you're like, dude, I don't believe in crystals. Then I take this right here, okay? We all know what this is. Even if you don't live in the United States, you probably know what money is, right? This right here. Now, a lot of times, what we can do is we can say this right here. Very spiritual. This right here. Yeah. I don't want that. This is, you know how many people that. How many dirty things this place, this has been? You know what people had to do to get this? You know what kind of person you are if you have this icky, dirty. But this. Oh, my God, it's so spiritual. This is so high vibe. I could just feel the vibration coming off of it. Now, when it comes to energy, recognize this about energy in this. What I'm telling you to do is to have more of a mentality of understanding that all money is. Is energy. That's it. Everyone's focused on the getting of the money. I want the money. I want the money. Give me the money so I can pay my bills. I need it for survival. Aaron, what are you talking about? Money. Money, or it's money is. Ew. It's money. I want to be spiritual. I want to ascend. I want to be connected to God. And you can't have one. You can't have both. Well, what I'm saying is that you don't want that. What you want to become aware of is either way, either you're putting it on a pedestal and making it amazing and high and spiritual, or you might be putting it on the ground and making it not spiritual and dirty. Either way, you will block it. Now, think of it as money, as, like, a person, right? Think of money as a person, if money was a person. And you're like, oh, my God, you're so amazing. Oh, you're so incredible. I just want you. I want you so bad. Oh, I want you. The money's gonna want to go away from you. Now, imagine you judge money. You're dirty. You're disgusting. You make me sick. It's gonna go away from you, right? If you idolize it, it goes away from you. If you talk down to it, it goes away to you. It goes away from you because of the energy. Just like, if you're around a person, you're like, you're the most amazing thing ever. I can't like you so much. It's gonna be like this, right? But if you're also, like, your pieces, like, they're also gonna be repelled away from you. So the key and the reason I'm sharing this with you is if you feel triggered by seeing some guy on YouTube with long hair with money, then there's some energy inside of you that's coming up to the surface to be looked at. Because that energy, that trigger inside of you is what's blocking money from coming into your life. Because the truth is, this is no more spiritual or unspiritual than this crystal. Just, we give it meaning. You give it different. We say the crystal and structure, and this is so much more spiritual. We're having a. We're spiritual beings having a spiritual experience on earth. Everything is a neutral thing that we give meaning. Now, the game changer for me, when I sold my nine to five, when I was working that nine to five job selling shoes, I want to share with you some of the things that changed everything about me moving from lack mentality into abundance. Now, the first thing is, I realized that this is more about energy than it is about money. When people have trouble spending money, right, they spend lots of money, and they can't hold on to money. It's an energy resource problem. There's an energy resource imbalance. And until back in the day, when I was. When I was abundant or before I was abundant, I was afraid to look at my bank accounts. I was afraid to see low amount in there, negative amount. I would. I would hardly ever look into my bank account. And that was because I was afraid. I was afraid it was almost like a shadow thing that I was afraid to look at. Now, what you want to become aware of, though, is that it's energy, and managing energy is the thing you want to become aware of. Now, when I went on YouTube back in 2017, I went from working a nine to five job I did not like, to still work in, a nine to five job I did not like. But I started to do what I was passionate about, which was making YouTube videos. I had this intention of adding value to other people. Going the extra mile is something I call this, too. If you want to set yourself out apart from people at your company, where you work, or your own business, go the extra mile. I put out over, I think I put over 2000 YouTube videos out. I give away a lot of things for free. There are certain things I do charge for live events, stuff like that. Some 21 day challenges I do. But even then, I charge $67 for a 21 day, 21 day challenge. Sometimes I'll go live, like ten to 15 times in that 21 days. And I over deliver like crazy because it feels good to me even when I do charge. But I give away so much stuff for free that you could never do anything. I do paid that that's paid and still get value. That's my belief, at least. But because of that, it's like the energy flows through me. Now, the thing that trips up a lot of people is they're all focused on getting the money. I want to get the money. I want to get the money. When I used to sell women's shoes back in, you know, 20, up until 2017, if I went into work and I was like, I want to sell $4,000 worth of shoes, because that's a certain. That's dollar 200 of commission. I want to sell shoes. I want to sell shoes. I want the customers come in. I'm then trying to manipulate, not manipulate them, but I'm trying to see them. I see them as a way for me to make my goal. It is manipulation. What I eventually learned is when I went into work and instead of trying to hit my goal, I focused on the energy, I focused on adding value, I focused on having fun, showing my personality, emotionally, elevating their state, whether they bought or not, I would have the best days because I'm more myself. I'm more in my own authentic vibration. I'm not trying to manipulate people to get what I want. I'm in a high vibrational state. So I'd focus more on raising my vibration, having fun, adding value, and even now on YouTube, I want to add value. I want to help, I want to have fun, I want to enjoy these videos. So when I do that, people feel the energy off of what I'm putting out and it has a different effect. You see the difference there. So when it comes to money, realize money is a side effect of the value you put out into the world. When you are getting in alignment with your purpose, when you are intending to add value to other people. And you could even say just following your excitement, some bashar talks a lot about follow your excitement, the thread of excitement. It may change what you're excited about, but you follow that in every moment you can. And then when it runs out, you do the next most exciting thing. This doesn't have to be some overarching thing like my most. I'm excited about making videos, then live events. Those are bigger arching things, but I'm very excited about expressing myself. And you know what's funny is I realized the videos that do the best for me are the videos I'm the most myself and I'm having the most fun. I think these two or three videos on Instagram that got one got a million views, one got 800,000 views. They're both from the same YouTube video. There were clips from a YouTube video where I was talking about like not looking and being in the vibration, but I was like showing my personality and having a lot of fun. And two clips from that got like 2 million views total from like a two minute segment. And it was literally, that was a reflection of that energy. So I could say that even the, the reflection of views and abundance is also a reflection of energy. It's all energy. And when you start to make this shift, you start to realize that there's, there's the breakthroughs are available to you. Because instead of chasing the thing, you start being the version of you that you came here to be. So realize money is a side effect of the value you put out into the world. And you put value out of the world by being the most authentic you and finding your purpose. Purpose is another word for meaning. What gives you a lot of meaning in life. Some people meaning is helping people. Some people meaning is creating content. Some people meaning is a sport or an artist. An artist. There's so many different. You have to find what means something to you and focus on honing that craft. Now, another thing I'll say that really helped, that made a huge difference, was when I became aware of what is called my set point. We all have a subconscious set point for how much money we believe we are worthy of. So worthiness is a huge part of this. And the more videos I made in 2017, the more I started to like that. Through the action, I started to feel more worthy. Through the action, I began redefining myself. I went from a nine to five job of selling women's shoes, where it was normal and familiarized for me to have someone else telling me what to do, telling me what, when I had to come to work, what time I could take off for vacation. I didn't like it, but it was normal. It was familiarized. So eventually, what I had to do is I had to become my own boss. I had to switch around the frame. I had to be the one to develop a strong work ethic. So I started making videos every single day on YouTube. Made one video a day I didn't know how to edit, had imposter syndrome, didn't feel credible. Procrastinated for years. And then eventually I said, screw it, I'm going to start. And if there's anything that you get out of this video that I have seen people in past videos change their life from, it's from me just yelling, just start. Stop waiting. Just start. Start being this new version of you. Figure it out. You don't have to have it all figured out. To start, I started making videos. I started. Then I saw myself differently. I went from seeing myself as a nine to five job goer, as somebody that has a strong work ethic, and then the more momentum I created. Eventually, within six months, I quit that nine to five job selling women's shoes. And I was just making videos and doing what I love. So you must become that version of you and start to value you being and creating freedom for yourself. You have to start also being willing to get into the unknown. Unknown is where all magic happens. The known is the nine to five job. It's the weekly paycheck. When you commit to something, resources in your life begin to work themselves out. But you have to start. So the other thing you want to become aware of is, what is your set point? I had a set point in 2012, 2011 when I first learned about this. When I read a book called Psycho Cybernetics. I realized that every day I'd go into work this top sales employees would always be at the top, the middle, and sales employees in the middle, and the lower sales employees at the bottom, because we'd see the sales from the day before. I realized, I said, what is my self image? Well, every day going to work, I'm right in the middle. I'm like, an average sales employee. So what I did is I started to think, feel, and act as a top sales version of myself. I modeled that versions of me, body language. I greeted customers like that version of me did would. I started to embody that energy. Within a few short days, I was at the top of that list consistently. And what I realized is a few things. One, the top sales version of Aaron greeted every customer, did nothing, select certain customers, help, greeted everybody. That version of me showed my personality. That version of me had fun. That version of me went above and beyond. Instead of me bringing out one shoe, I'd bring out three or four shoes. I'd have the courage to, like, bring out other things. I think they would like what ended up happening. And then even after they bought the shoes, I would wrap up the shoes in a certain way that looked very special and I would bring it around the counter to them. And it was just stuff that other in sales employees I worked with didn't do. Why did I do it? Because it wired in my mind. This is the kind of person I am. I go above and beyond the extra mile. I changed my self image. The idea behind psycho cybernetics is that we all have a set point self image that we subconsciously try to remain in. So if you have a nine to five sales job self image that only gets paid $50,000 a year or 30,000 a year, subconsciously that's what your, it's your comfort zone. And what you want to do is become aware of what that is and then step into the unknown and begin to transform it and to see yourself differently. That's where you start to create inside out transformation. Now I use that same thing to become a youtuber I thought felt acted equal to the, in my imagination, the nine to five job goer. Instead of that, the full time youtuber. And within few short months, my whole entire life changed. And then I've done that again years later. To be doing live events with hundreds of people speaking on stage for sometimes two or three days straight, 8 hours a day, same thing. You can use this in any area of your life. Now, the degree to which you're adding value to others and that you're in alignment with the process, is the alignment to where people are willing, you create trust with people to where they're willing to trust you to be a part of their 21 day challenges. Like for me, my 21 day challenges, my live events workshops, because I've developed a certain amount of trust, certain amount of value. And they say, well, if I get all this stuff for free, then what if I were to do something? I pay. And it's kind of so in different ways. You can look into that now also, like having a mentor, having somebody that's already doing what you're doing, looking at how they do it, working with them, being around their energy, that can be helpful, too. Now, one thing I'm going to be doing is I feel very inspired. Lately, I've been really redefining what abundance is for me, because even though I've attained a certain amount, you know, certain amount of success, I've been going through a process recently of actually letting go of a lot of things. Like, a lot. I've had storage units full of stuff, and I'm moving now to California to live, like a lifestyle by the beach. And I'm realizing what abundance really is for me. And part of that is getting rid of stuff that I've stored for years and storage units, even simplifying my life in certain ways. And I'm learning a lot about abundance and how to really create my dream lifestyle by. Because I'm realizing some of the shadow work for me is like, holding on like money has been a subconscious form of control. Money is also very often connected to the dad energy because dad is masculine and connected to purpose. So if there's an imbalance or not trust there, it'll block certain areas of our life. So something I'm gonna be doing is a 21 day magnetic abundance challenge. It's going to start on September 25, and it'll be for 21 days. If you want to join, I'll make sure this video goes out when there's enrollment open. If you want to join the 21 day magnetic abundance challenge, learn how to go full time doing what you love. Live in abundance. Go out of scared, lack mentality into abundance. Then go ahead and click the link below. Join the 21 day abundance Magnetic abundance challenge. We're gonna be going live, doing live meditations, live hot seat coaching videos that help you to transform yourself from the inside out so that this may be something that resonates with you. You can click the link below to check it out. And if you want one of my most popular meditations on abundance, I've seen the comments of people saying that money just, like, literally popped into their life when they started doing this meditation. Go ahead and look at this meditation. I'll go and pitch it. I'll go and post it right here. It's thinking and growing rich in this meditation. This is what this meditation will help you do. So do this meditation for 21 days. Watch how much your life changes. I'll go and put it right here. This meditation will reprogram your mind for a bunch.